Come to Jesus talk with Jaime (last thursday)

 Confronted Jaime and listed out everything that has been bothering me for the last couple of years..also used the divorce word and that scared him. I felt so much better once I was able to express myself, but now he wants us to go to couple's counseling which is something I am open to...he is now scared to hang out with me and doesn't know how to communicate with me. I am no longer scared about how I engage him and plan to remind him of any inappropriate behavior and comments.....stay tuned.